{"id":50184,"date":"2017-05-02T05:46:56","date_gmt":"2017-05-02T05:46:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.imhd.nl\/log\/?p=50184"},"modified":"2017-05-03T19:50:40","modified_gmt":"2017-05-03T19:50:40","slug":"decisions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.imhd.nl\/log\/decisions\/","title":{"rendered":"decisions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Play the game of life like an adult. Don&#8217;t be a whiny child.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Oh my god, that&#8217;s me, anderen volstouwen met hurt feelings, what the hell am I doing? Waarom zijn Myss&#8217; lectures 100x beter dan welk gesprek ik ook voer? Myss is a mirror. Je ziet jezelf (genadeloos). Instant. Gesprekken zijn below the waist: traag.<\/p>\n<p>It takes a lot of courage to play above the waist. You move at higher altitudes. Things move faster. People have to be willing to talk with you at a higher level. Some will never get off the first floor: they want to stay a victim.<\/p>\n<p>Below the waist things happen slower, because you wait for them to incarnate.<\/p>\n<p>Above the waist you operate on a hunch, you operate from intuitive rules. If you feel that you&#8217;re losing energy, you don&#8217;t wait to get sick or fired. You don&#8217;t wait (for months, years, a lifetime) and say &#8216;I knew it, i knew it&#8217;. You walk away.<\/p>\n<p>You make a choice and follow the consequences. It doesn&#8217;t make it easier. But it&#8217;s lighter, faster, cleaner. There&#8217;s no smog. There is truth and clarity. You don&#8217;t blame people. You don&#8217;t want things from people. You don&#8217;t cheat and lie in that world.<\/p>\n<p>Operative word: remove fear. Fear is not an excuse to not act courageously.<\/p>\n<p>Do I love myself enough?<br \/>\nDoe het dan.<br \/>\nA decision will be made anyway.<\/p>\n<p>Caroline Myss is zo irritant, je moet wel gaan handelen. Uit zelfrespect.<\/p>\n<p><em>[bij het luisteren naar Navigating Changes in Your Life: What You Need to Know \u2013 Omega Institute 2015, Caroline Myss]<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Play the game of life like an adult. Don&#8217;t be a whiny child. Oh my god, that&#8217;s me, anderen volstouwen met hurt feelings, what the hell am I doing? Waarom zijn Myss&#8217; lectures 100x beter dan welk gesprek ik ook voer? Myss is a mirror. Je ziet jezelf (genadeloos). Instant. Gesprekken zijn below the waist:<a href=\"https:\/\/www.imhd.nl\/log\/decisions\/\" class=\"read-more\">Read more &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.imhd.nl\/log\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50184"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.imhd.nl\/log\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.imhd.nl\/log\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.imhd.nl\/log\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.imhd.nl\/log\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=50184"}],"version-history":[{"count":20,"href":"https:\/\/www.imhd.nl\/log\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50184\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":50233,"href":"https:\/\/www.imhd.nl\/log\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50184\/revisions\/50233"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.imhd.nl\/log\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=50184"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.imhd.nl\/log\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=50184"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.imhd.nl\/log\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=50184"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}